Statistics dispassionately report: in every other bedroom
there are various kinds of sexual problems. Sometimes on one side,
sometimes on the other. The difference, however, is that if the woman
"didn't work out" she doesn't make it a problem. On the other
hand, when a "mishap" happens to him - it almost means the end of the
world. And no wonder, because men identify very strongly with their
sexuality and erotic performance and any failure in this regard is a cause for
great concern for them. However, it would be much better if the gentlemen,
instead of worrying, took the bull by the horns and looked for the source of
the problem or professional help.
Unfortunately, only a few percent of men with bedroom
problems see a sexologist doctor in
Delhi, India. We can say about them "lucky" - because
thanks to the quick treatment they return to full fitness. It turns out
that most male problems are temporary problems that can be dealt with. And
win!
Erectile dysfunction - when to seek help?
The first enemy of true masculinity is erectile
dysfunction. There are several different phenomena under this
name. Sometimes it is a condition in which an erection does not
appear at all. Sometimes the penis stiffens, but not enough to have a
satisfactory intercourse. And sometimes, although it achieves the desired
hardness, it loses it at some point. If such a situation happens once - it
is already difficult for a lover, but you can still say "it's temporary,
it will pass, the next time it will be better". The male ego suffers,
but hope does not die. But if erection problems occur several times, the
man becomes afraid. What I feel? He is desperate, the world is
slipping from under his feet. The threat of the label of impotent peeks
into the eyes - because what is a guy who "can't" worth?
There is a vicious cycle: the more a man is afraid of
problems with potency, the more likely that they will occur. And that - in
the opinion of men - ashamed to admit such a powerlessness, instead of seeking
help, they begin to avoid intercourse - this is the easiest way not to confront
the problem. Is this method good? Definitely not. Because not
only does the problem persist, but there are also misunderstandings with the
partner who feels unwanted, unattractive, and rejected by her lover. And
when the atmosphere between the partners breaks down, the desire drops even
more and sex stops "pretending".
How do I get out of this vicious circle? First of all,
approach the problem with calmness. You must remember that temporary
erectile
dysfunction happens to most men, especially if they are exhausted
or very stressed. Only when the problems persist for some time are, they
treated as a problem requiring consultation with the best sexologist in Delhi, India. But
beware: even if the problems drag on, no doctor will call you
impotent. This must not be done. He will sooner hear about sexual
dysfunction or problems with potency. Impotence is a negative concept
that can only aggravate the problem, and that's not the point ...
The causes of erectile dysfunction
The causes of erectile
dysfunction are complex. They can be emotional or psychogenic - it
will be, for example, depression or a subconscious aversion to a
partner, and sometimes to sex in general. The reason may be hormonal
disorders, when low levels of male sex hormones do not "feed" the
libido, the man is not aroused enough, so he cannot have an erection. The
causes are also neurological (e.g., multiple sclerosis), anatomical or
iatrogenic (caused by damage e.g., after accidents or surgeries).
It also happens that erectile
dysfunction is the first sign of other, completely unrelated to erotic
diseases, for example problems with the prostate or kidney
failure, as well as diabetes or atherosclerosis. The last
two diseases quite quickly have a negative impact on such a delicate sphere as
the erectile mechanism: diabetic neuropathy involves damaged nerves,
and angiopathy - blood vessels. Meanwhile, for an erection to occur, both
circulation and innervation must function perfectly.
All these problems have one thing in common: each requires
consultation with a sex specialist
in Delhi. And it is worth considering medical help, the more so
that after the cause has been cured, sexual performance returns one hundred
percent.
The blue pill - Viagra
What do men with erectile dysfunction
most often ask doctors? For the magic blue pill - Viagra (or
any other drug containing sildenafil, vardenafil or
tadanafil). Although you need to know a bit about Viagra to be able to
actually use it.
The main active ingredient in Viagra is nitric oxide, which
acts on the blood vessels to increase their flexibility and efficiency. In
addition, it stimulates a whole cascade of various biochemical changes that
lead to an erection. The composition of the pill has also been enriched
with substances that inhibit the process of penile relaxation, maintain, and
prolong the erection. Therefore, if the problem lies in circulatory
disorders, Viagra will actually deal with it immediately. However, for the
blue pill to help, the man must want sex and must be aroused (that is, his
partner must "turn him on"). If there is no excitement, you will
not get an erection, even after taking Viagra.
Premature
ejaculation - causes
This is the second most common male nightmare. This is
a state where ejaculation occurs so quickly that intercourse is not
satisfactory for both parties. Because although a man experiences physical
discharge because of ejaculation, a woman has no chance of orgasm -
statistically speaking, she needs at least 10 minutes of stimulation and
intercourse to feel satisfied. A man, although he often needs less than
three minutes, seeing and feeling his partner's dissatisfaction, is also not
able to derive satisfaction from being close. Although there is no rule
here: there are couples where a woman is satisfied with a short intercourse -
this is most often the case when she is not a big fan of sex herself and treats
it as a marriage, onerous duty. In this case, rapid ejaculation in your
partner is not so much a problem as a solution.
Nevertheless, most men dream to be able to make love like a
real macho for many hours, and preferably all night (although few women dream
about such long-distance close-ups). And ejaculation after two or three
minutes is a reason for them to complex. It also happens that a man
"shoots so quickly" that he ejaculates before the penis is inserted
into the vagina. However, this is quite typical of very young men who are
very excited to have access to a female body at all.
However, if we visit a sexologist clinic in Delhi,
we will find out that, regardless of our own expectations as to the length of
intercourse, premature
ejaculation is a condition in which intercourse lasts less than three
minutes. If this time exceeds even a few seconds, it is not considered an
anomaly by sexology, but a normal condition.
Where do these problems come from? Apart from being
young, you can blame them for the emotional tension, the man's insecurity, his
fear of failing to test in bed, and sometimes… infections in the genitourinary
tract.
Ways of premature
ejaculation
There are several ways to do this. The first is to
reduce sexual tension before intercourse - or masturbation for
short. If the first ejaculation happens this way, the second
"try" will be longer. It is best if the first ejaculation is the
"joint work" of the lovers. Then it brings the partners closer
to each other, and the woman can even help the man reach the first climax.
The second way is to use special condoms filled
with a special anesthetic. It reduces the penis sensitivity to stimuli,
and thus slows the build-up of excitement under the influence of frictional
movements.
Another method is a strong grip on the base of the penis
when a man feels that the ejaculation is approaching (another school says that
it is on his head) and quite firmly pressing it. This is to impair
circulation. The excitement decreases, you may even experience a partial
loss of erection - but this is nothing to worry about, two moves and the
erection comes back. In this way, you can press the member several times
during intercourse, prolonging it.
But these are all half measures. The most reasonable
solution is to visit a sexologist
in Delhi, India who will teach a man to properly "handle" his
penis during intercourse. He will tell you how to stop ejaculation when it
is already approaching. The man may then practice slowing down during
intercourse or while masturbating.
Priapism - penile dysfunction
Priapism is another penile dysfunction, fortunately it
is extremely rare. The disorder is when the penis fills with blood to get
an erection - but after ejaculation, blood doesn't drain from the cavernous
bodies of the penis - as it should. It stays in the cavernous bodies of
the penis, causing a long-lasting, prolonged, painful erection. It is a
health-hazardous condition! In this case, you should go to the hospital as
soon as possible, where the sexologists
in Delhi will clear the blood outflow and make the erection pass.